When You Stop Searching

I always hear that when you are looking for something, you may never find it. Lately I have given up on dating and the search for that special someone. Now I have stated many times that I am no longer looking for love, but deep down I knew I really wanted it. As of late, I have truly and whole heartedly have been enjoying the single life. Spending time with friends. Having those incredible nights together where you wake up in the morning and think, “Whoa that was an Amazing Night.” Getting to know my new friends in California all that much more. Creating new friendships and acquaintances. The other day I heard from a crush. One that I have not seen or heard from in a while. Have you ever seen anyone for the first time and just think, “Now that is dating material.” We all have our thoughts where some people look screwable good while others look datable good-looking. This one was/is datable good-looking. As of now it is only a potential, but got me thinking about the search. The search to find the right one and how it evades us while we are looking. It is like only when we are truly comfortable with ourselves and being alone. The right ones begin to come along. Who knows instead of right ones…One day we will find the right ONE.