Single

Why is it that when we are in a relationship for a period of time and it ends. With the next few who come along we jump in so fast. Instead of starting from the beginning again, we jump right in the middle and skip all of that. Is it because we are so afraid of being single and alone. Sometimes we need to be terrified and single in order to really appreciate the good ones who do come along...Maybe then we realize that being single is not so terrifying..

Open up

Why is that we feel so much more comfortable writing down our thoughts instead of expressing them? When we feel we have something to say, instead of actually speaking up and revealing what is on one's mind we write. Being expressive verbally is such an incredible release. It frees one of any regrets, what if's, etc...Opening up is hard sometimes but necessary to truly reveal who you are

Growing up

As we get older we learn & develop a few things in life...Those people you thought would be there forever all of a sudden are not. We become more self reliant and aware of life. The real world truly hits us. Time starts to fly by. etc...During this transition period it is truly important to stay strong, never give up and just see it through. There could be something great ahead waiting on the other side...

He's Just Not that Into You

So, I just finished watching He's Just Not That Into you...This got me thinking...Every relationship we are in, no matter how alike it may seem from the last is so different in a way that we learn what not to or what to do the next time. Sure you get hurt, cry, sometimes blame yourself, but it's all for a reason. Maybe there was some fault on your part. There are after all two parties involved. The thing is, if you feel in anyway that the other person is not feeling you then let it go. The other thing you can do is just bite the bullet and ask what's up. Nothing wrong with some blunt honesty. I personally admire & respect those who are. So many people obsess so much about what the other is thinking, when it really could be as simple as just asking or taking the lead yourself...

Confirmed

Today my flight and itinerary have been confirmed for my potential jump start of my career in Cali...This got me thinking. When we are given such a great string of opportunities, how do we know that we are making the right choice. People say "always follow your gut", others say "follow your heart." When it really comes down to it, the best thing to do is to evaluate everything. How you see yourself in this new place? Is this what you really want? Are you really ready for this and are you willing to take such a chance on life? No one can really answer these questions for you, nor can anyone make the final decision but you...

Life, Work & Relationships

Why is it that when we finally feel we have met the one person that could be the one you can spend your life with, a once in a life time opportunity comes up...Making a choice and taking a chance on love, or jump starting a career that could potentially be obscenely lucrative. The ability to not have to make a choice and do both would be amazing. Although, that simply would not be realistic and such is life. Sometimes it is possible to have it all early in life without a struggle. But that is a rarity. To those who are able to do so, I say God bless them and hope they realize how blessed they are.

Lately

Lately i have been thinking....When we carry ourselves with pride, dress well, are well groomed, speak clearly and properly....why does that instantly mean one is snobby or stuck up. Not everyone who takes care of themselves and truly enjoys life feels they are better than anyone else. If anything one feels elated to b..

Snow Day

It's snowing outside and I was thinking. Today is literally a perfect day to stay in, snuggle up under some covers, have some bobsled brownie ice cream and just relax. Looking outside I think to myself...The world is truly beautiful and every season literally has something really great, different and interesting to offer.

Break Ups

Why is it that when people break up they try to remain friends immediately after it all went down. There is no time for one to stand back and take a look at the bigger picture. Think back and realize why this one did not work out, what can be learned from this experience, etc...Even when all seems ok on the surface. One party could be truly hurting on the inside

Holidays

During the holidays some people get caught up. Caught up in shopping and buying gifts for all, in finding that someone, if just for the holidays so they will not be alone at this time. The holidays should be a relaxing time. Time to reflect. What can be changed for the better. What stays the same. What new and exciting...