He's Just Not that Into You

So, I just finished watching He's Just Not That Into you...This got me thinking...Every relationship we are in, no matter how alike it may seem from the last is so different in a way that we learn what not to or what to do the next time. Sure you get hurt, cry, sometimes blame yourself, but it's all for a reason. Maybe there was some fault on your part. There are after all two parties involved. The thing is, if you feel in anyway that the other person is not feeling you then let it go. The other thing you can do is just bite the bullet and ask what's up. Nothing wrong with some blunt honesty. I personally admire & respect those who are. So many people obsess so much about what the other is thinking, when it really could be as simple as just asking or taking the lead yourself...