Thursday, January 6, 2011

Take me As I am

The other night I had dinner with the most incredible, insightful and comfortable woman i have met in a long time. Our conversation was non-stop and so easy. Of course we got around to my favorite topic...Matters of the heart.

Have you ever met someone who is so imperfect yet so perfect at the same time. I have met a select few where i have thought this. Some are in the most incredible relationships, while others are happily single. "Take Me As I Am" a great phrase and powerful statement. There are so many people out there who try to change for another person. Why is that? I know we all want to love and be loved in return...Does it have to be at the cost of losing one self. To not be able to be yourself is a tragedy. It is a feeling of not truly being comfortable around others. Not matter who we meet in life, friends or lovers. One should always keep this phrase in mind. If they cannot accept that, then they are not meant to be in your life in the first place.

1 comment:

  1. Well said. Sometimes while throwing myself around on the dance floor like a raver having an epileptic seizure I wonder if perhaps more women would find me enticing if I danced with a little less flailing and a little more sex appeal. But then I think, my future wife would surely not mind if I spilled a little tiny bit of my drink all over her, as long as I was having fun and being myself. And surely, somewhere on a dance floor my future wife is thrashing about happily with her gay, unconcerned what other people might think.