Losing Yourself

Have you ever been in a relationship with someone and lost yourself? Lost the person you use to be before you met them? Sometimes we get into relationships that do not allow us to be ourselves. For so long we living in their shadow. We are working to be everything they want us to be. We are giving in and being molded into what they need or want. The person we use to be is left behind in hopes that someday in the future, somewhere along the way, we will find ourselves again in this relationship. Then one day we realize that we are truly lost. Lost in this relationship. We are tired of waiting for those moments of approval. Those moments when you feel or hear it is ok to be You. We begin to want to stand on our own two feet. The relationship we have could either change or end due to this. What is most important, is that we are ourselves. Not to ever get so lost again, that we lose ourselves…